What is Integrity?

The word integrity is used a lot these days. It is almost bandied about. But what is it? What happens when a major corporation collapses, when governments make decisions that we don't like, or even when friends and partners act in a way that hurts us, that we could consider to be of low moral value or integrity?

Integrity obviously differs from one person to the next. We talk about someone being "of integrity", meaning that they hold similar (or the same) values as we do. But each of us has our own individual understanding of this. We are working from our perceptions and experience of our world and everyone and everything around us, as well as our own sense of self. And so are they.

Yes, everyone is in their own integrity, all the time.

When someone makes a decision that is not what we like - that does not match our beliefs and values, or when they act in some way that is counter to what we would do, we get hurt, disappointed or annoyed and angry depending on our relationship with them. It becomes easy to fall into the blame game.

What is really happening is that they are still behaving according to their views at the time - they are within their integrity in the moment, and it might just be that their integrity is different to our own.

So perhaps we could check whether their integrity is aligned to ours when we consider going into an important relationship or agreement with someone else.